I am not enamored of babies.
Never have been. Never had one, I am not an uncle (nor an aunt); my friends have kids but I generally wasn’t around them when they were babies –my friends’ kids, that is, I certainly wasn’t around my friends when they were babies, if they ever were. (I mean, I can’t be sure, right? I wasn’t around. Sure, they say they were babies… though hang on, I’m not even sure they ever said it… This bears looking into.) When I have been around my friends’ babies, I have generally been a little intimidated: I worry that they’re too fragile, that I shouldn’t touch them or pick them up in case I drop them. It is weird that they are tiny things that will grow up into complete humans. I can’t really grasp it.
But I do not feel that way about animal babies. I absolutely adore puppies and kittens and tadpoles and chicks. I think they’re amazing, and though they are often very fragile, I still want to pick them up and cuddle them and kiss them on their awkwardly big heads.
So I’m learning to be more fond of human puppies. I guess. Still kinda weird, those little things. Though they do generally have nice eyes. And cute toe-beans.
One thing I know for sure: new babies, new life, is magical and precious, and heartening, in a time like this. I have a friend, a former student, who just had a beautiful healthy daughter this last Friday; her first. Alexandria. Everybody’s fine. My friend is going to be a good mom. I don’t want to share pictures, because it’s not my story to celebrate; but it is news worthy of celebrating, so here it is.
And here’s another birth worth celebrating, which I can share:

Congratulations, everybody.

